It can be amazing what you learn about some people. And the more they try to hide things about them the easier it becomes to find it out over time even if they never realise this or understand how this can be.

You never know exactly who you are talking with online. Not even if you ever speak on a phone do you really ever learn what they could be really like. Only by ever meeting the person life offline can you really ever decide what they are like in truth over time.

Many people claim to be one way online but act another offline. That is just silly really. Be who you are offline when you are online. It works out better in the end. So be careful of those that claim this. "I am not this way offline" "I dont act this way IRL"

This is one of the main problems with the internet really. That no one has to ever really be who they are either offline or online. To many can play around and hurt others feelings for they do not have to worry about any ramifications of what they do or say for you can always just change your name online and get a new ip address and email address and start over. So no one ever really cares what happens to each other.

Another small problem is the fact that each speak and act differently. Depending on where they were born and raised, each person even in the same nation speaking the same language can actually speak many different variations of that language, for there is no one true real correct way to speak it or write it. This causes much confusion in some and annoyance in others when they do not act or speak the way they think it should be done.

Hint: Each person is completely different then the next based on how they were raised and you can not expect or think or beleive they will be the same ever.

Hint: Each person can and does change in many ways as they grow older through life. So how they may act at one point in time may not be the the same the next time you speak with them if it has been any length of time between the last time you spoke with them. So you can not use your old idea of how or who they were to decide who they are now or how they will react to things. Do so and be disapointed/hurt/surprised/confused/ etc...

Another problem is it is very hard to truely show or express emotions through text. So one could say they are crying and really be laughing (just a callous/heartless/lieing pain in the ass). Or could claim they are fine but really looking at the screen through tear filled eyes(tyring to hide their true emotions to look better for others) and you would never know, unlike if you were around them offline.

Some act like adults but are still mere children, some act like children but are really adults just trying to fit in with younger people.

So never 100% ever trust anyone or anything that is said online through text. You never know when you are being lied too or used or abused or being made fun of behind your back. Which hurts most even more when they learn this to be true. The only problem with that is some try to demand 100% or beleif in them or they will turn on you or betray you or lie about you or mock you to others to make themself feel and look and sound better then they really are.

So choose your friends wisely and carefully and if ever they keep something hidden from you about themself, be careful and weary about them. For that which they hide could be a very big or dangerous part about who they really are and could hurt you emotionally or mentally or spiritually sometime later down the road.

Why these words from me like this. I felt some needed to ever hear this for some reason.